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Your divorce can give you a positive fresh start in life

An unexpected divorce can make it feel as though your entire world is crashing down around you. The stability you've counted on is gone. The person you've loved for so long is walking away. While it is easy to get drawn up into the emotional welter, you need to take a step back and look at the entire situation before you make any decisions.

It might be tempting to beg your spouse to stay in the marriage, but this likely isn't going to do any good. One of the first things that you must do is to accept that they are ready to move on. If they've filed for divorce, they've already checked out of the marriage. It isn't going to be easy, and you're going to deal with grief and other difficult emotions. Just remember, this is a fresh start for you so now's the time to work toward the best one possible.

Moving on with life

Just because you're divorced doesn't mean your life is ending. Instead, this is a time when you can set personal goals and work toward those without having to worry about how your decisions will impact your spouse. It might help you to find a support group for people who have gone through divorce so that you have someone to talk to.

Another positive thing you can do with your life is to find activities that you enjoy. You might make a new circle of friends who can provide you with encouragement as you learn to live a single life.

The practical matters

The practical matters in the divorce are the ones that you need to focus on during the early days of the split. This includes property division. Trying to get a favorable property division settlement can help you to have a little more financial stability as you start off your new life.

As you consider the assets and debts that must be divided in this process, be sure that you know what you can realistically afford. You're taking on the entire set of household bills on your own income, so you should set a budget based on your income alone. Some assets might be costly to keep up. It might be best to bypass these if you have any doubt about your ability to keep up with the costs. You don't need financial stress plaguing your new life.

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